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WiCk3diNTeNti0nzZz	Posted: Jul 26 2009, 09:41 AM
SmiLeY Group: Member Posts: 5,168 Member No.: 2,304 Joined: 19-April 09	so if someone says ur their bf/gf but they say their scared of commitment what does all this really mean? -------------------- ~WiCk3D ShOrTiE~ a.k.a SmiLeY

Axe	Posted: Jul 26 2009, 09:51 AM
D' MK Photographer MoD Group: Moderator Posts: 7,345 Member No.: 3 Joined: 2-August 07	They not ready They still looking They scare of being hurt --------------------

WiCk3diNTeNti0nzZz	Posted: Jul 26 2009, 10:11 AM
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Axe	Posted: Jul 26 2009, 10:14 AM
D' MK Photographer MoD Group: Moderator Posts: 7,345 Member No.: 3 Joined: 2-August 07	Could be...But for someone to say i am your g/f or b/f but cant commit is not serious. When someone wants a relationship with someone they will commit. My advise is move out quickly while feelings are not tangle in. --------------------

WiCk3diNTeNti0nzZz	Posted: Jul 26 2009, 01:05 PM
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Axe	Posted: Jul 26 2009, 01:26 PM
D' MK Photographer MoD Group: Moderator Posts: 7,345 Member No.: 3 Joined: 2-August 07	Staying faithful to one & love that person Always true, honest & caring to the same one Looking for more than a relationship in time like marriage in the future. --------------------

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Posted: Jul 26 2009, 01:54 PM

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QUOTE (Axe @ Jul 26 2009, 02:26 PM)

Staying faithful to one & love that person
Always true, honest & caring to the same one
Looking for more than a relationship in time like marriage in the future.

Yup ... u said it ...

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Imogen	Posted: Jul 26 2009, 04:22 PM
D' SpAMoD Group: Moderator Posts: 11,358 Member No.: 2,158 Joined: 14-January 09	I agree with axe...several reasons con make one a commitment-phobe....sigh. --------------------

WiCk3diNTeNti0nzZz	Posted: Jul 26 2009, 04:24 PM
SmiLeY Group: Member Posts: 5,168 Member No.: 2,304 Joined: 19-April 09	so what if ur 8 months into the relationship? relationships are confusing thats y u should just have a buddy yes -------------------- ~WiCk3D ShOrTiE~ a.k.a SmiLeY

Axe

Posted: Jul 26 2009, 06:20 PM

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QUOTE (WiCk3diNTeNti0nzZz @ Jul 26 2009, 04:24 PM)

so what if ur 8 months into the relationship?

relationships are confusing thats y u should just have a buddy yes

In a relationship for it the flourish there must be good communication..Each member must talk to one another...Good or bad...Now i know there is no perfect relationship but the couple must be welling to work it out...Makes no sense one person trying while the other could not care if today is saturday or sunday...

But if something is confusing u must talk it out.

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Posted: Jul 26 2009, 08:03 PM

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QUOTE (WiCk3diNTeNti0nzZz @ Jul 26 2009, 02:05 PM)

whats allyuh definition of commitment?

peace out!!

Im not ready to ever be committed to any woman ( no disrespect ladies). I just not ready and cant seem to understand how ppl my age can claim to be committed.

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a pix of a coil dosent mean a thing bro. i can take a pix of a coil up close and write puzzy magnet on it,do u think it will get u laid?

Axe	Posted: Jul 26 2009, 08:08 PM
D' MK Photographer MoD Group: Moderator Posts: 7,345 Member No.: 3 Joined: 2-August 07	Commitment should never be an age issue but one wanting something more in a relationship.... --------------------

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Posted: Jul 26 2009, 08:13 PM

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Ive been in relationships and broke them off for different reasons but ask all the chicks they all say that Im scared of commitment and being with one woman.

May-be they are right because to me commitment in a relationship demeans that I have to almost be available to count all the breaths my woman takes kinda scene and Iman just not ready for that kinda scene. I dont mind being oepn and connected with someone but taking that "next" step IDK I just cant face it head on at all..

Axe just to clear up why I used age, as a teenager anyone will tell you we are fickle as hell, one minute its shoes, colour shirt, what to eat and even who we like. So I see it hard to be committed and faithful when you cant make up your mind.

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a pix of a coil dosent mean a thing bro. i can take a pix of a coil up close and write puzzy magnet on it,do u think it will get u laid?

Axe	Posted: Jul 26 2009, 09:22 PM
D' MK Photographer MoD Group: Moderator Posts: 7,345 Member No.: 3 Joined: 2-August 07	Not a problem Boom, enjoy life if you not ready dont rush... --------------------

WiCk3diNTeNti0nzZz	Posted: Jul 27 2009, 07:39 PM
SmiLeY Group: Member Posts: 5,168 Member No.: 2,304 Joined: 19-April 09	u make a lot of sense boom and u r rite -------------------- ~WiCk3D ShOrTiE~ a.k.a SmiLeY

seductress	Posted: Jul 28 2009, 02:13 AM
NoT A NeWbIe anymore Group: Member Posts: 69 Member No.: 1,893 Joined: 16-July 08	why want to be in a relationship and then suddenly realize you not ready for commitment? why say I love you when you don't even know the meaning of love? why say your heart belongs to someone and they are your everything when you're not sure they are the right one for you? What is the "RIGHT" one? who is SO perfect and flawless in faults and making mistakes? What and who make you feel that 10 years from now you will finally be settled enough and finally find this so called person of your dreams and no one and nothing can tear that apart? Yes you may be financially able to do so, but no one can tell when you meet your match. I think teenagers should not look for commitment at such a tender age however, but as some stated in this thread, if you think you cant commit just yet, then don't! I agree with you all on that. Having buddies on the other hand could mean several things, sex buddies, liming buddies etc. nothing can compare to Love though, because it's supposed to be an all in one package lol. Maybe you all might not understand what am trying to say, but for one, how can you be in relationship and not want to commit? that confuses me,lol Relationships can be a great thing if the understanding is there and the trust and attention it needs. you cant give a person hopes and then tear them apart because of your own selfish reasons,you can;t lead someone on and then tell them you not ready.(well u can, but that just wont be right) and sooner or later, Karma catches up to you when you figure you find d man or woman you ready to commit to. I hope i helped in a way and not made things more complicated -------------------- We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.

sexy_bitch	Posted: Jul 28 2009, 02:24 PM
MK FrEeKWEnT POSTAH Group: Member Posts: 461 Member No.: 2,302 Joined: 19-April 09	well said seductress

Sly	Posted: Jul 28 2009, 03:39 PM
WeSt SiDe KiLLaH Group: Member Posts: 10,001 Member No.: 1,955 Joined: 9-September 08	damnn... wellll said seductress ... will u marry me?? -------------------- U Shouldn't Throw Stones if u live in a Glass House and if u Hav a Glass Jaw u Should Watch yr Mouth... U either In CrEePeRs Or U Out .. U Cant b Both or When Its in Yr favor..

WiCk3diNTeNti0nzZz	Posted: Jul 30 2009, 07:29 AM
SmiLeY Group: Member Posts: 5,168 Member No.: 2,304 Joined: 19-April 09	true but some pple say it and realize 2 late cuz maybe at the time they were lonely or whateva -------------------- ~WiCk3D ShOrTiE~ a.k.a SmiLeY

seductress	Posted: Jul 30 2009, 12:28 PM
NoT A NeWbIe anymore Group: Member Posts: 69 Member No.: 1,893 Joined: 16-July 08	but why just because a person lonely they have to mess up other people's heart and give them false hopes? -------------------- We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.

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