Title: Being single is it good or bad?
Axe - February 6, 2009 07:35 PM (GMT)
Constructive views please...
DouglaKing - February 6, 2009 08:05 PM (GMT)
Depending on your age it could be bad
southside connections - February 6, 2009 10:45 PM (GMT)
lemme be honest,when you are single, you feel free but you tend to be lonley at most times
you know how hard it is to go and lime when all uh padners have dey girl wid dem and u feelin real crappy becasue u dey by urself?and all you doin is watchin and saying to yourself ,"one day i go have dat"
it's not a nice feeeling,talking from experience espically in hard times, when you need sobody to give you that extra push,and you look and no ones there, you loose your strenght and it discourages you alot
times of need, fellaz i being honest here,i need meh lil love dovy talk and i need to know somones there waiting for me
for all those who have it,lemme say the real word eh- love,they should be very happy, yes it will have d hard times and things, but at the end of the day, it well worth it
and i see alot of couples where one person devotes themselves to the other and the other just dosen't care, and i feeling hurt and sad inside for them
this question,well the answer should be up to you
Axe - February 6, 2009 11:39 PM (GMT)
Racegod - February 6, 2009 11:49 PM (GMT)
gorm... thats a hard one...
babygirlshereza - February 7, 2009 01:09 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (southside connections @ Feb 6 2009, 07:45 PM) |
lemme be honest,when you are single, you feel free but you tend to be lonley at most times
you know how hard it is to go and lime when all uh padners have dey girl wid dem and u feelin real crappy becasue u dey by urself?and all you doin is watchin and saying to yourself ,"one day i go have dat"
it's not a nice feeeling,talking from experience espically in hard times, when you need sobody to give you that extra push,and you look and no ones there, you loose your strenght and it discourages you alot
times of need, fellaz i being honest here,i need meh lil love dovy talk and i need to know somones there waiting for me
for all those who have it,lemme say the real word eh- love,they should be very happy, yes it will have d hard times and things, but at the end of the day, it well worth it
and i see alot of couples where one person devotes themselves to the other and the other just dosen't care, and i feeling hurt and sad inside for them
this question,well the answer should be up to you |
i like how u describe ur opinion
3stagevtec - February 7, 2009 03:00 AM (GMT)
southside said it all there.. i'll be lost without my other half..
and when i go out without her, i always feel as though something is missing...
casper - February 7, 2009 03:42 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (3stagevtec @ Feb 6 2009, 11:00 PM) |
southside said it all there.. i'll be lost without my other half..
and when i go out without her, i always feel as though something is missing... |
awwwwwwwwww..... :(
DJ Q - February 7, 2009 04:16 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (3stagevtec @ Feb 7 2009, 12:00 AM) |
southside said it all there.. i'll be lost without my other half..
and when i go out without her, i always feel as though something is missing... |
That's exactly why my wife is with me everywhere I go, and sometimes if she doesn't go, I won't go. It'd be like I'm going with my brain and leaving my heart at home. Without her, there's no way I'll have a (blood)flow
Racegod - February 9, 2009 02:26 AM (GMT)
ummm one wurd... thats a bit clingy imo...
you should be able to have a life outside of ur other...
Purplerose - February 9, 2009 03:33 AM (GMT)
Being single can be a good thing... depends on how long you intend on being single for... :)
I would rather be with my bf any day... I wish I could see him all the time..I wish I can have him around me more often.. but altho things can't always be in our favour, it's nice just knowing that he's there and that he loves me..
Relationships arent suppose to be something that we feel tied down on..it should allow us to be free as well as give us satisfaction.
Mutual understanding ,love and trust is what it's based on.
merciless - February 9, 2009 10:09 PM (GMT)
true dat
and even though i am married,you can't b with ur better half all of the time.........give them some space and vice versa........ don't get me wrong here, i love my husband more than anything in this world but we give each other space and that's what keeps us together, i am not always clinging on to him and he does the same thing
Death-Row - March 3, 2009 03:25 AM (GMT)
single life is great, lime when, where and who u want to, also more time for yourself to get other stuff done. i was never in a serious serious relationship b4 tho but i think being single up to a certain age is cool. people act like its a crime to be single tho. the amount of talk i does get eh :lol:
im 19 btw
-jack- - March 3, 2009 03:47 AM (GMT)
single is good for your pocket.
not single is good for company, it feels good to have a MATURE companion who shares the same interests as you
(note to all: doh lime no gyul aftef I done with them)
DouglaKing - March 3, 2009 11:32 AM (GMT)
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| single is good for your pocket |
Nah Jack i might have to disagree with you a lil bit. Yes you have more control over your pocket. But in some cases you find yourself spending alot more money taking out "interesting" females
Axe - March 3, 2009 12:34 PM (GMT)
The only advantage i see is:
You have control over your life, there is no more compromise with anyone. You do what you want, go where you want and who you want.
WiCk3diNTeNti0nzZz - September 5, 2009 10:16 PM (GMT)
Sheriff! - September 7, 2009 02:17 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (southside connections @ Feb 6 2009, 07:45 PM) |
lemme be honest,when you are single, you feel free but you tend to be lonley at most times
you know how hard it is to go and lime when all uh padners have dey girl wid dem and u feelin real crappy becasue u dey by urself?and all you doin is watchin and saying to yourself ,"one day i go have dat"
it's not a nice feeeling,talking from experience espically in hard times, when you need sobody to give you that extra push,and you look and no ones there, you loose your strenght and it discourages you alot
times of need, fellaz i being honest here,i need meh lil love dovy talk and i need to know somones there waiting for me
for all those who have it,lemme say the real word eh- love,they should be very happy, yes it will have d hard times and things, but at the end of the day, it well worth it
and i see alot of couples where one person devotes themselves to the other and the other just dosen't care, and i feeling hurt and sad inside for them
this question,well the answer should be up to you |
:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: u hit d nail on the head!
Rider - September 7, 2009 02:47 AM (GMT)
Today my friend Candace met me at TGI for a couple of drinks, she has problems with her boyfriend...she admitted to having FUN with me today and looks forward to another lime.
with her bf, she feels like an old lady :(
with me, she had fun!
there is no sexual connection between us, but we enjoyed each other company...first time we limed!
If i had a gf, she would of been jealous, angry, sad, mad at me and Candace situation...which was just CASUAL.
I am single, and life is so good. I meet people, lime and there is no wrong doing what so ever. Total freedom!!
Candace will be single very soon too, i talked sense in her head lol. TMI
I say....SINGLE IS NOT SUCH A BAD THING.
Until you are SURE that u have found the right person.
Axe - September 7, 2009 03:04 AM (GMT)
Well being single for 8mths i must say its not easy..There are times i think i am dreaming that i am alone..But reality has kick in...But you are right Rider..Even i meet new friends when i lime in my usual places..Its not that bad cause i can talk, dance and buy a drink for who and how many i want...There are times i cant believe it that i am doing this, but i been told many times...Things happen for a reason and a reason maybe the right thing.
So i guess its not that bad seeing my cell phone is building up more women numbers now...
southside connections - September 7, 2009 03:32 AM (GMT)
well right now for me, it's bad
but say what utt starts tmm, so maybee i will meet a chic
Rider - September 7, 2009 03:33 PM (GMT)
Lol axe, just give it some time.
Who knows, one of the ladies that you know may end up being your soulmate.
You can use this to your advantage you know, you have the chance to feel out which lady is right for you. Meet them, get to know them and build a trust before you make a bad or wrong decision.
Axe - September 7, 2009 04:20 PM (GMT)
Sly - September 7, 2009 07:41 PM (GMT)
Being single 2 me is bad :( i cah stay single :(
WiCk3diNTeNti0nzZz - September 8, 2009 01:37 AM (GMT)
Bass King - September 9, 2009 09:07 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Sly @ Sep 7 2009, 03:41 PM) |
| Being single 2 me is bad :( i cah stay single :( |
I hadda agree eh
WiCk3diNTeNti0nzZz - September 15, 2009 12:20 AM (GMT)
Bass King - September 15, 2009 12:58 AM (GMT)
WiCk3diNTeNti0nzZz - September 16, 2009 01:17 PM (GMT)
no im keeping it real for u
Bass King - September 17, 2009 01:29 AM (GMT)
WiCk3diNTeNti0nzZz - September 20, 2009 05:47 PM (GMT)
Bass King - September 22, 2009 10:40 PM (GMT)