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For instance, if you're banned from chat, if you think that's in error, you have no way to go back in to discuss it with the op that banned you. and you can't go to anybody else, because, like lamer said, its between you and the op. So, suggestions? (oh wait) there's a way in Mirc to message a certain user online, but im too lame to know how its done. (well just a thought)
Step 1: Remain Calm. Resist the urge to go on a raging tantrum. If you go on a tantrum you loose any opportunity at respect or mediation.
Step 2: Send a PM to the OP (yes, you can do this even if you cant enter the room). Asking to understand the reason for the Kick or Ban.
Step 3: BE PREPARED to admit you are wrong. BE Prepared to apologize.
Step 4: Ask for that OP and Myself to meet you in a chatroom for mediated discussion.
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TRL has evolved a culture of blatant disrespect and mistrust of the leadership. Where people in the throws of an Irrational Raging Tantrums are allowed to attack the leadership. They rally other, uniformed, members around them and the fight is on. This also applies to individuals who manage to maintain their composure, yet refuse to accept that they may have done wrong and commence to cause trouble.
The vast majority of the cases are were a where the Leader made a decision based on what they interpret as the Community's desires. A Single Individual does not agree with a leader. In the name of Democracy they go on the warpath. Because they invoke democracy, the common rabble rally to their cause.
"In the name of Democracy". It is not democratic for one person, throwing a tantrum, to attack a leader following the desires of the majority. If it is indeed the desire of the majority to invoke a change, Tantrums and hysteria is not an appropriate approach.
A particularly nasty part of this culture has been the ability to play one leader off of another. Where an affronted member causes leadership to fight and work against each other.
This dark bit of our culture has caused much of the discord among us and is what I am I am trying to change. The process of change is not easy. Many of you will not like it. Especially because to cause the change I have to be Strict, Hard and possibly violate your rights. In the end it will be an improvement, not just for your rights but for the future of the clan.
Leadership will be: ..Recognized for the Elected Status ..Trusted to know, understand and Honor the foundation of TRL ..Assumed that their decisions represent the desires of the Community.
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